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Im Laew (I'm Already Full)- Like Really, I Eat All the Time


Well, folks, I can honestly say that this has been one of the most boring weeks that I have had here in Thailand.  Tis because finals week is coming up, and my laziness meter and stress levels have skyrocketed to an all-time high.  It’s quite unfortunate that they’ve both decided to grow at the same time.  Also, all of the Thai students have left for break, the internet is AMAZING; so, the internet is an even worse distraction than before. The amount of times that I’ve checked Facebook is making me feel disgusting.
This is what I look like too much of the time.

 
This is the common room on my floor where I spend 75% of my time when I'm in Alpha.
Look beside the red chair on the right- that's all of my homework!

A lot of my time this week has been dedicated to reading the assignments that I neglected reading so that I can do well on my take-home final exam for Social and Cultural History.  I have two out of three essays done!!!!! It’s never taken so long to write two 3-page papers before (both of them are over 4 pages- #overachieving). I have neglected to study for my Thai exams and one of them is an oral exam at 10:10 am (kill me now). It’s not my fault- I had to watch the boys at Omega Dorm model on top of the rooftop for 30 minutes, and hang out with Allen, and watch Game of Thrones, and learn the lyrics to a bunch of songs.  These things are important too. 

Speaking of Allen…Allen is one of my good friends here at Payap.  He is from China, but he goes to school in Thailand, and he studied abroad at SMCM last semester!  Eyesha and I went out to dinner and an excursion with Allen and his girlfriend Tingting to hang out with them before they leave for China- Allen has graduated, and Tingting is leaving for break.  After dinner, we went to the market behind Big C.  It doesn’t have many things that interest me (mostly nice normal clothing and weird toys), but it DID have fried bugs for sale.
Eyesha, Tingting, and Allen.

 


 And I ate some.  I had a little grub and bit the head off of the largest grasshopper in the bin. They didn’t taste bad, but I was absolutely horrified at the fact that I was eating bugs, and the grasshoppers head was super crunchy.  It’s amazing how the mind bars us from doing things that we’re totally capable of doing.  I tried eating bugs.  Now I can cross that off of my list of things to do, and I can say with conviction that I would prefer not to eat them.
I ate one of these grubs.


 


I also nibbled on the crunch head of this big guy.
This was my after-face.
After that lil escapade, we went to the German Microbrewery in Chiang Mai where I tasted the best beer I’ve ever had.  Unfortunately, I can’t remember the name, but it was yummy.  We met a man from Arizona who has been living in Thailand for 20 years.  We had a short conversation about how he saw that America was going downhill for years, and that he’s glad he’s no longer living there.  I can see how he justifies his reasons for being in Thailand from an economic perspective- you get a lot for your money here- but, politically…I just don’t really know.  Speaking of politics- sending in my absentee ballot this week!!!!! Good citizen!  Tis my first time voting J
A toast to Thailand!
 

I talked a lot about SMCM with Allen.  Unfortunately, this made me miss home a lot.  I think a lot of people are kinda missing home, especially those in relationships.  Crap has been going down lately, and it’s making me sad.  I won’t delve into personal matters too much in my blog, but I feel that long-distance relationships are a big issue in travelling.  It can be done people.  It sucks, but it can be done.  Don’t be a dingus and throw something good away.  My own beau has asked me to give this message to the boyfriends of my friends here, but I think this can apply to many others, so I post it here:

"Good sir, it has come to my attention that we are each dating incredible women as they mill about several thousand miles away in Thailand. I hereby challenge you: That we both maintain relationships with these ladies so long as they remain in that silly country. Where I am I have seen several relationships collapse due merely to distance - and I issue you this challenge in the hopes that at least two pairs of us can come away unscathed from this interesting, but most trying time. Stay true to your heart, stay true to your soul, Peter."
I miss St. Mary's!
 
 


And this.
Now.  On to less serious matters.  Perhaps the most fun that I’ve had this week was our short reunion with the Swedes- Andreas, Erik, Adam, Philip, and Rosa (and the Chinese girl’s name that I can’t remember) that we met in Pai.  We intended to go to a Salsa Dance Club…but it was closed.  So we hitched a ride with P’Jew who had agreed to go bowling with us…but there was a bowling tournament that shut us out.  Success came when we decided to hit a few bars- the THC bar, Loco Elvis’ Restaurant and Bar, and of course…Zoey’s.  I hate Zoey’s.

Loco Elvis was great.  We didn’t eat their food, but we used their microphone.  Laura and I sang “I Don’t Wanna Miss a Thing” by Aerosmith, while Andreas pulled out his air guitar to Kiss’ “Detroit Rock City.”  The owner of the place is the absolute best- during a Thai girl’s performance of “Billionaire”, he made an unexpected entrance during the rap part- and he was amazing.  Twas a thoroughly enjoyable experience, and totally recommended for all of the classic rock fans and pop babies. 
Emily, Andreas and Erik singing...a song.

The awesome bar owner makes his entrance.
 
 

Okay.  Awesome update.  We figured out how to get on top of the roof of Alpha! AAAHHHH!!!! I’ve been wanting to do that since I’ve been here, but the urgency was heightened by watching those boys model on the rooftop for 30 minutes.  It’s way too easy (though satisfactorily so) to get up there.  And the view is awesome.  We were gonna eat our Greek pizza from Duke’s on the roof, but then it got too dark.  Duke’s is a place that I would recommend to everyone who is missing good ol’ Amurican food- it’s a lovely establishment, it delivers to campus, and the food isn’t made Thai-style.


Do I look like a regal bird?



 


Sittin on a rooftop, enjoying a sunset.
I feel like this is the most boring post that has been posted.  But my week has literally been filled with work and gorging myself to death with 7Eleven snacks.

Well, I’ll talk about food then.  I’ll list out my go-to’s slash all-time favorites that you must eat while here!

·         Pad see ew= a Chinese influenced fried noodle dish.  I like to order pad see ew je (vegetarian) because they add a bunch of yummy veggies (carrot, bok choy, broccoli, cauliflower) that they don’t add when you order non-vegetarian.

·         Pad thai= famous noodle dish. On campus, the Canteen has the best seafood pad thai.

·         Tom yam kung= famous Thai soup with spices and some sourness.  This particular version has shrimp in it, but you can get it with chicken or pork too.  I like mine best with the small noodles (guay-tiaw lek).

·        Fried rice= everyone has had fried rice.  Rice being the staple food for almost the entire world, people have gotten creative with it.  Pineapple and chicken fried rice are always good.  I really like the Rainbow fried rice which has carrots, peas, onion, pineapple, tomato and raisins in it.  I’m being starved of the amount of veggies and fruits I want in life.

·         Sticky rice and mango= the sticky rice is flavored with coconut milk

·         Masman curry= thai curry. Reminds me of beef stew, but it’s derishous!

·         Papaya salad= super yummy, but sometimes really spicy

·         Khau tom= overboiled rice in a soup.  Kristina swears it has healing powers.

·         Pork on a skewer

·         Rotee!= like a crepe, but super good!  There are rotee stands everywhere!

·         Laap= ground meat with mint and basil and spices.  SUPER SPICY but super yummy.

·         These I have not had, but Kristina recommends them:

o   Taud mun= fish cakes with chopped green beans and chopped peppers, deep-fried (I've provided the recipe for shrimp cakes)

o   Mian kham= self-made wraps

o   Black sticky rice and coconut milk= dessert

 

There.  I’m sure I’ve sufficiently bored you until you drool on your keyboard.  Either that, or I’ve made you extremely hungry for some Thai food- in which case, you should come here and join me for some nom noms!

Too Exhausted for Real Title


I am tired and have a crap ton to do this week.  So, I will make this a quick and dirty ketchup and new sauce post- meaning, I have some general things I have neglected to say about my trip in past posts, and I have some new exciting experiences to share.

 

Movies:  Spirited Away is awesome- watch it.  Adam, the head of the SEAIGS program, has set up a weekly movie screening in which he features documentaries and films that highlight a bunch of human rights issues happening around Southeast Asia.  Who Killed Chea Vichea is about the political killing of an important labor rights leader in Cambodia, and At the Horizon is a film that gives a voice to the Lao people in the face of a corrupt justice system.  I encourage everyone to watch them, despite the feelings of world-loathing, sickening anger, and incredible sadness that might be experienced.  The hard facts of life have to be faced so that changes can be made and more light can be brought into the world.

 

Here are pictures of my room! Pictures of my Thai roommates may come later- you’ve already seen Alex.  It bothers me that the walls are so bare and white.  Tis why I hung up my favorite Yugioh cards and my Lego men in my corner of the room.  I basically sleep and dump my shit in the room, and hang out in the common area all day long.  So there’s not too much to say about that. 
 

 

The bathrooms.  The bathrooms are fun- I will refer you to this blog post about the bathrooms because it is well-writ, and because Rachael is also in the same program! So read on, fellahs!

 

My budget- lemme tell ya what.  Getting rides to places is by far the most expensive thing that I am doing here. I have to spend money every time I want to go somewhere, and it is frustrating.

 

Ethnic identity.  People are obsessed with appearances.  They say, “where are you from?” I say that I’m from America.  And then they ask me my origins again, gesturing to the face.  Sometimes, people just assume that I am Thai, and proceed to ramble in really fast Thai to me, until they realize that I have absolutely no idea what I’m saying.  I need to master the Thai language so people will believe that I’m Thai, and will not rip me off because I’m a foreigner.

 

School work is starting to happen.  Just a few hours ago, I finished writing two mid-term essays for my Social and Cultural History class.  I know I am here to study, but sometimes I wish that I weren’t.  There is so much more to do here than read textbooks and write essays, although it is fascinating to do schoolwork about another country while residing there.

 

New stuff.  Cliff-jumping! Umm I don’t feel like re-writing this, therefore I will use an exerpt from a message that I sent an hour ago:

i went cliff diving/jumping in this awesome quarry.  the first jump was fine because it was a reasonable height that i've jumped before cliff-jumping in hawaii, but the second jump- it was incredibly scary, and i almost didn't do it because not only was it super tall, but the cliff angled out and i was afraid i would hit the rocks. but then a thai girl i didn't know said "jump with me". so i did! and i landed on my ankle, which made swimming hell- my ankle is swollen now. and i have a gash in the bottom of my foot. which is annoying and should make muay thai (which is done barefoot on concrete floor for some of the training) interesting. so hopefully my ankle heals up by wednesday. later that night we went to an arabian restaurant slash hookah place. and i tried hookah. matt and i switched shirts because he wasn't dressed properly for the black and white party he was going to afterward (i went home). i was wearing a white overshirt. i walked out of the restaurant before he could say he wanted to switch shirts, which was hilarious. the boob lines on the shirt were evident and he looked like a gay european. i was proud of myself.

My foot gash as a result of my jump.


 
People jumping off the smaller cliff.

 
Sweet atmosphere and food at Babylonian.
 

As you can see, this message also includes other escapades about Saturday’s adventures!  I had a good day.  Today (Sunday) I went to the Chiang Mai Zoo and Aquarium with some friends.  That zoo is enormous and absolutely beautiful.  It’s funny because there are tour busses that take people from station to station.  I love the zoo- and the animals inspired me to do some art projects eventually when I have the time and materials.  I highly recommend going to this zoo.  And, if you are a Payap student, remember to bring your student ID so you can get a discount.  Forgive my grumpy tone- next week I shall make up for it with extra bubbly-ness.
Mickey holding a lemur at the Chiang Mai Zoo!

Village People


Ard.  I am back from having fun in the village in the Phrao District!  I am overwhelmed by how much there is to say- in short: it was such a great experience filled with way too much good food, and hard work, some boredom, and communication difficulties galore.  If you are not interested in the details, stop reading here; if you want rambled details…read on ya hambanger!

So, on Wednesday, all 34 people in our group crammed into this large truck with three benches.  Each bench was about 3 inches wide, so the ratio of bum size to bench width was off for everyone whether our pants size is 0 or 10.  Egalité! Woo!  Then, it was an interesting 1.5 hour drive to the village.  We unpacked ourselves, awkwardly congregating near the village moms.  P’Neung and Ajarn Gai (our leaders) paired two students with one family each; Nikki and I were dragged home by Mama Peauw (I have no idea how to spell anyone’s name- you say it “pee-ow”).
A glimpse into the pig truck.

Our house was basically a cement rectangle with aluminum roofing, and six rooms: the main room where we ate on the floor, our parents’ room, another secret room for Goo and her husband, a tiny kitchen, a bathroom, and Gee’s room where Nikki, Gee and I slept.  The architecture was interesting because none of the walls went all the way up to the ceiling which really helped because light from the kitchen flooded into the bathroom over the walls- peeing in the dark is not fun.


Our parents don’t speak English- and I don’t even know the name of my dad because I thought he hated us the first couple of days. He was super cute because he was a crooked old man with tattoos and a Playboy belt buckle.  I’m sad because we didn’t get a picture of him, but he disappeared before we could say goodbye on the last day.  Gee and Goo are our fifteen-year old fraternal twin sisters with knowledge of a tiny bit of English (most of us were able to communicate to our parents through the children if we were COMPLETELY CONFUZZLED about what they were trying to tell us).  Yes, Gee is married- to a twenty-year old- I think it was pre-arranged, but they are cute and seem happy.  Goo is unmarried and the typical teen- the entire time she was glued to her phone, and she liked all of the guys in our group way more than she liked us.  Typical. 
With Goo and Mom.

Nikki and I with Goo





Our mom is a sweetheart.  Most of our conversations with her were about food:
Mom: *point at a food* “kin mai? (do you eat?” or “chawb mai? (do you like?)”
Us: *nod* “kin.” Or “chawb”
Mom: *positive grunt*…then she’d grab it or make it the next day as an addition to anything we had just eaten.  Dude- our stomachs are dying, and we have food babies and don’t want to eat for the next five days.  Everything she made us was SO GOOD. For some reason, they have the best mango I have ever tasted.  Let me give you examples of meals she made us to give you an idea about how much food we had in a day
1.      Breakfast: a bowl of rice, a bowl of mango, 2 pieces of fried chicken drumsticks, and a stew with octopus, shrimp (the heads too! I helped Goo peel these the day before), and some other unknown food items.
2.      Snacks. Banana chips or steam buns or these rice candie things or longans.
3.      Lunch: a bowl of rice, a bowl of noodles. This is a normal-sized meal.
4.      Snacks.
5.      Dinner: a bowl of rice, hot dogs, pork meatball things, pad thai.  Each meal, they would try to feed us even more.  Woo- it’s a workout for my tummy.  I’m not complainin- I didn’t go hungry, and everything was delicious.

Let’s see.  Things we did- a lot of visiting other houses.  It was interesting to see how differently everyone lives in terms of decoration and quality of things.  I won’t go too much into detail here.  We also helped pick longans (a fruit similar to lychee) amongst the gossipy moms who liked to discuss (in Thai of course) what meals they cooked for us and whether or not we liked it.  The village is run by the moms- it’s super cool.  The chief will make announcements on this loud speaker to gather the moms, and then they’ll just yell out at each other to make sure everyone is around.  One night, after dinner and a bath, everyone was dragged out to this little town meeting where the moms were discussing who knows what.

We went on a field trip to the Buatong Waterfall (Sticky Waterfall)! Which is this waterfall that you can walk up without slipping because the calcium deposits are so thick. It’s so awesome.  We also went to a temple (Wat  Prathat Doi Wiang Chai Mongkol)- and it was SO BEAUTIFUL! I need to know more about Theravada Buddhism.
Attempting to sound the large gong (you rub it, not hit) at the temple.  I couldn't make this one make music, but I could do the smaller one.
One day, we helped the village build a chick dam.  We formed an assembly line to pass buckets of sand and pebbles through the jungle so that they could build the dam.  If they don’t build the dam, then the water runs throughout the village and it’s bad.  It felt really awesome to do something good and helpful (the moms would barely ever let us help which was really sweet), even though our bodies were a little sore the next day.

On the last night, we celebrated what I think was the kathina ceremony where the village offers a money tree, a new robe, and other practical items to the monk.  Earlier in the day, we got to help make decorations out of plants, and put money on the money tree.  Later, everyone got dressed in their Saturday’s best, then gathered outside of one of the stores.  We started dancing, then it started raining! So we gathered inside the store, and continued dancing! They had a drum, gong, and cymbals playing the music- it was basically the same song over and over with few variations, but we loved it.
Congregating moms making this beautiful thing out of banana leaves.

Procession through the rain (they stuck us in a covered truck) to the beautiful temple.  Prayers and chants, welcoming, history on why this is done (if anyone is interested I will tell), then all the parents tied white strings on our wrists to help call our spirits back into our bodies.  We offered all the goodies to the monk, then went outside where the  moms did a special dance for us (super cute).  Then, each family got to send a paper lantern set with fireworks into the sky.  It was funny because ours almost didn’t make it into the sky.  It was so cute, and it made me the teeniest bit homesick because it reminded me of my last night in Maryland. And to end the night…MORE DANCING! My mom laughed at my dance moves.  Apparently, the lawn-mower, my infamous hand and shoulder dances, the monkey, and that silly knee dance do not exist in Thailand.
Up, up and awaaaaay!

Next morning was goodbyes.  Twas a beautiful and sad thing. Some moms cried, ours did not.  But she still seemed a little down.  Gee was taking pictures of all the boys, but Goo will miss us fer sure.  Thank goodness for Facebook.  As promised, this post is longer than the last, but it is time to end.

I will end by saying that my village experience was one of the greatest- it was a great push into becoming confident about learning Thai, and it was nice to be around very resourceful and unspoiled people.  I loved it so much.  Also, when we got back to Chiang Mai and went to market, I bought three pairs of pants.  I love pants.